“You have helped us blow our noses!”
/One of the challenges of training in Zambia is communicating well. Of course, this is obviously the case when our students don’t speak English, which makes Percy Muleba’s awesome translating skills so helpful. But, what about when our students do speak English, and very well? Well, funnily enough, it can still be a bit of a problem. As Percy says, “We both speak English, but we don’t mean the same thing.”
This hit home to me yesterday as I spent a couple of hours chatting with Pastors Pelekelo, Martinet, and Titus. We had enjoyed an engaging morning of training as we looked deeply at leadership and vision from the book of Nehemiah as he led the rebuilding of Jerusalem’s walls. We had ended the morning with our students commenting that in order to lead well into our God-given visions, we will have to rebuild our own walls, the walls of our character. Indeed.
Then, after a good lunch, we began to talk about all sorts of things, from entrepreneurship and economics to hilarious cross-cultural misunderstandings. We laughed a lot over such things as what placing your hand in your pocket while preaching means (definitely not good here!) to the Zambian proclivity to try to go the extra mile whenever you order food. Just try to get plain white rice here and you’ll end up with white rice, but with a garnish of some sort (tomatoes, green peppers, tomato sauce, margarine, saffron, etc.) no matter what you insist! Seriously. Such fun! We laughed a lot about these things.
The conversation turned more serious for the last hour or so but, hilariously, as I concluded my “illuminating” thoughts on an important matter, Pastor Martinet spoke these words, “Thank you, father! You have helped us blow our noses!” I said, “What?” He repeated himself, “You have helped us blow our noses!” I said, “Do you mean clear your heads?” He said, “Yes, that’s it!” Pastor Titus began to laugh, then I began to laugh, then we all began to laugh, and then we just roared. What an amazing way to end a long conversation that had begun with discussing cultural misunderstandings. Hilarious!
So, if you ask me how it’s going at our Boot Camp, my answer is simple. It’s going great. We’re really helping our students blow their noses, and they’re really helping us blow ours! Any questions?